I’ve been seeing a lot of single people lately, be it my friends or people I just met, they all complain, or affirm that they are single. So WHY IS IT? As time progresses, my curiosity increases, so I had to do some research on this… Why is it that so many individuals that love each other are not together but decide to remain single?
In my opinion, I think it’s because we are afraid of commitment and that it may lead to a heart break. During this time and age, we forget how to be vulnerable as we put our walls up. I think this applies to both women and men.
Within this society, we find it difficult to express our feelings, thoughts, goals , etc. Why? Because we are scared to be left out in the cold (as the saying would say), however, what we don’t realize is that by doing so we fall into a trap of losing our true and unique identity, we dim our spark to fit in a so called ‘Society’. I personally dislike the way we, humans, complicate everything. I can’t tell him/her I miss her cause it might seem needy and then I might get dumped, I can’t tell her/him I dislike being called X or Y because what if they will get the wrong idea…
Don’t you agree that by being open, vulnerable and by maintaining a clear and sincere communication with your other half/crush/husband, you give them, yourself and your relationship a chance to develop to a deeper level of understanding and at the same time solve the cause of the problem before it gets to a point where it might be too late to solve anything?
Three rules I always go by in a relationship, be it romantic, friendship and so on, there should always be Respect, Loyalty and Clear Communication. I think these are fundamental in having great, long lasting relationships with people. (ofc only the ones that are worth calling them friends or your other half)
Last but not least, before assuming something about someone, give them the chance to explain themselves by being open about how you feel and think. Let’s become more aware and be more open to sharing who we truly are! Because You are simply amazing and the right people will love you unconditionally.
P.S. From now on I will be posting New Blog Posts every week.
xoxo Humeyra xoxo